• “Our fantasies must die for
    our dreams to come true.”

  • “Instead of striving to be
    greater than ourselves
    we should strive to be
    more of ourselves.“

  • “Let People come and go.
    Love them when they are
    here and love them when
    they are gone...“

  • “In any situation forgiveness
    is always the answer.“

  • “Be current.
    Just don't go with the current.“

  • “Don't live life so it
    all works out...
    Live life for the stories
    to tell.“

  • “Stay open. Look to be
    surprised everyday..“

  • “Embrace the breakdowns,
    that's where the education is....“

  • “Don't be jealous about what
    others have, be curious
    about how they got it.“

  • “Your fantasies have to
    die in order for your
    dreams to come true...“

  • “Love is the ability to cry
    publicly,laugh uncontrollably
    and have your heart
    broken constituently.“

  • “A good life lesson,
    you don't get so hung
    up on the lyrics, enjoy
    the music…“

  • “Instead of striving to be
    greater than ourselves
    we should strive to be
    more of ourselves.“

  • “Anything I'm afraid
    to lose, I've already lost.“

  • “You are a product of
    what you say yes and no to.“

  • “Never open your heart
    to someone that can't hold it.“

  • “Don’t look at the glass
    as half empty. And don’t
    look at the glass as half full.
    Look how you can jump
    in and get soaking wet.“

  • “You have nothing to say
    about your head going up
    your ass. You might have
    something to say about
    how fast it comes out.“

  • “Don’t try and get life
    to makes sense.
    Make sense out of
    what life gives you.“

  • “No drama unless you get paid for it.“


"I believe tackling one’s life and one’s deficiencies is heroic.
It often feels like a crusade that takes all we’ve got."




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“I think it’s a mistake to ever look for hope outside of one’s self. One day the house smells of fresh bread, the next of smoke and blood. One day you faint because the gardener cuts his finger off, within a week you’re climbing over corpses of children bombed in a subway. What hope can there be if that is so? I tried to die near the end of the war. The same dream returned each night until I dared not to go to sleep and grew quite ill. I dreamed I had a child, and even in the dream I saw it was my life, and it was an idiot, and I ran away. But it always crept onto my lap again, clutched at my clothes. Until I thought, if I could kiss it, whatever in it was my own, perhaps I could sleep. And I bent to its broken face, and it was horrible…but I kissed it. I think one must finally take one’s life in one’s arms.”

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