There’s a natural order to everything;
We keep screwing with the natural order of things.
Most people live from Production, Creation, Liberation.
If I get something, have something, conclude something, accomplish something, I will be more creative which in turn will give me Liberation/Freedom.
Wrong order. First comes liberation regardless of the circumstances (That is why people say “Fuck it” that is a form of liberation which has them create and ultimately produce.)
That is a dysfunctional equation and you always have to get to the end of your rope in order for “Fuck It” to exist-
We are looking at being able to liberate yourself at all times.
You don’t ask random people for money- There’s a natural order. First you have to have some sort of relationship, then there has to be some sort of possibility- an outcome you are presenting, what’s the opportunity for the other person and finally is the request. Only after the before mentioned three do have to the real traction to ASK.
There’s natural order to any and all things, from Nature to Human Nature and everything in between.
When it comes to finding your career path, again there’s a natural order to things and it starts with communication not action. You don’t just go get anything-you formulate-you explore. You mostly look at what you’re predisposed to, what skills you have and what you are drawn to develop. You decide what you’re not going to do before you look at what you are going to do. Too many people fantasize about what they are going to do-when that is never in the equation.
Communication is the key and shame does not allow one to explore or communicate. We become afraid when our fantasies are threatened so instead of engaging to see if this is our true course we ignore the signs.
In the sprit of “The Natural Order of Things” there are signs-there are always signs that you are in the right place doing the right thing with the right people if you are just willing to look.