In the Hush

What we call an ending often obscures a beginning. We like to think that when something ends—an opinion, a project, a conversation—it has finished saying what it came to say. Often, it has only changed the terms of the conversation. Some things do end, and should. But what feels like closure is often just a threshold:…

Permission

When I coach, I listen for one governing note beneath all the noise: Will this fulfill? Whether I am guiding someone through an intimate relationship, a new partnership, the birth of a product, a passage from one season of life into another, or any decision that asks to be made, I return to that question…