Keeping Up

Staying relevant is a full time job. So many subcultures, so many distractions, so many balls to keep in the air.As a baby boomer (that term is usually accompanied with a look of disgust) I am vilified as the violator of the planet.Hey, maybe warranted.Keeping up with language and behavior is daunting, and practicing terms so they…

Presidential Debate

The presidential debates came as no surprise. The fact that so many political pundits were surprised, is in fact the most disturbing part of it all. I feel sorry for the candidates. I feel sad for them. I don’t think that’s the feeling you want in your presidential candidates. To put Joe Biden in that…

Contradictions

The world is full of contradictions, just as we are, as we are the creators of the world, it would follow suit that all forms and structures in the world are just an external expression of our internal challenges, passions and needs. We are given directives and mandates, instructions all day, every day and we…

Identity

IDENTITY is a way you want to be seen or r how you do not want to be seen. I want to be seen as Talented, not Lucky. I want to be seen as Smart, not Stupid. I want to be seen as THE MAN, not Limp. We all have multiple IDENTITIES- meaning ways we…

Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes

“We are determined by two very distinct properties. Shame and Love. These two qualities are parallel travelers that intersect, and change leads all the time throughout our lives.” “Surrender is the ability to relinquish your authority for another’s credibility.” You can try to hold on to an ideal, a lifestyle, a time, but the disruptive vortex…

Innocence Lost

Hard to maintain your innocence in a world of mental distress, violence and disappointment but that is the attempt. It’s not the goal because a goal is somewhere out there beyond you. The attempt lives in the moment, in the immediate, in the here and now.  To look at life with wonder and fresh eyes might be a…

Contradictions

The world is full of contradictions, just as we are, as we are the creators of the world, it would follow suit that all forms and structures in the world are just an external expression of our internal challenges, passions and needs. We are given directives and mandates, instructions all day, every day and we…

Identity

IDENTITY is a way you want to be seen or r how you do not want to be seen. I want to be seen as Talented, not Lucky. I want to be seen as Smart, not Stupid. I want to be seen as THE MAN, not Limp. We all have multiple IDENTITIES- meaning ways we…

Sacred Vows

Whether you are saying Good-bye or saying Hello, our Sacred Vows are the touchstone of what is true.  Sacred vows include what you have said about yourself, to yourself, in the quiet moments. Sacred Vows act as a baseline, a reset and illicit an inventory of where you have fallen short or have lost your way or where life’s arrows have…