Another Year

LOVE: to override logic and linear thinking and go to the irrational Heart. Another year. Another line etched on our faces. Another year of fighting the good fight. It seems this year has been a grind, not that there haven’t been significant moments and individual attempts to bring light to some darkened corners of our…

Transitions

MOBILITY: the power of forecasting change and then changing. Successful transitions are one of the major cornerstones of a successful life. Whether it’s as simple as waking up in the morning and brushing your teeth, transitioning your baby from a crib to a changing table, or relinquishing an opinion to see someone else’s point of…

Dedication

MIRACLE: a product of talent, skill, resources, and dedication that all come together in one seminal moment. The most important part of that description is DEDICATION. You can develop skill, you can find mentors, but it’s the power of routine, the day-in, day-out practice, that makes those skills, talents, and miracles show up. There are…

Maybe a Better Way

The cultural pull when fear and concern are at an extreme high is to withdraw, to isolate, to hold back. Entitlement and hair-trigger behavior are at an all-time high, regardless of your circumstances. What is there to do? To be generous, to be kind, to look for where you can help. We all have different…

Longing

Looking for a moment of silence. A place to reside where less is more and my needs outweigh my wants. Where I can think straight, get my bearings, and slow all this down. There are those outliers who are off the grid, but that doesn’t seem possible, certainly not probable, and not really desirable. The best…

Harmony

It’s curious how one person driving a Porsche Carrera looks cool, and another looks like a dick. Brad Pitt eating all the time in every movie – looks cool. Someone else does the same, and it looks gluttonous. Ted Danson – no commentary about his toupee – actually, people think that’s his real hair.  What…

Fresh Bread / Smoke and Blood

I think it’s a mistake to look for hope outside of oneself. One day, the house smells of fresh bread— The next, of smoke and blood. That used to be the context—a smart narrative that gives one perspective and insight into the volatility of the human condition. Great literary quotes and passages stand the test…

Leaning in – Leaning out

We mostly speak up where we have nothing to say and stay silent where we might have some real impact. We cover our faces in shame and apologize when we are vulnerable, but we are fully animated and puff out our chests when we are enraged. You would think it would be the other way…

LONGING AS OPPOSED TO LIVING

There is a natural tendency to look back and LONG for a time that no longer exists. We have a savant ability to revise history, to revise times, so it heightens the distortion of current times.  There is a nostalgic piece of longing for more of a halcyon time and there is some cloak of…

A Pocketfull of Moments

In these very uncertain times, it’s difficult to find sustainable inspiration, long term possibilities. And yet we keep looking- it’s a little bit like having lost your keys but you keep going back to the same location hoping that they will have miraculously shown up.  It’s not easy understanding what is bankrupt and no longer…