It’s curious how one person driving a Porsche Carrera looks cool, and another looks like a dick. Brad Pitt eating all the time in every movie – looks cool. Someone else does the same, and it looks gluttonous. Ted Danson – no commentary about his toupee – actually, people think that’s his real hair. What…
DetailsI think it’s a mistake to look for hope outside of oneself. One day, the house smells of fresh bread— The next, of smoke and blood. That used to be the context—a smart narrative that gives one perspective and insight into the volatility of the human condition. Great literary quotes and passages stand the test…
DetailsWe mostly speak up where we have nothing to say and stay silent where we might have some real impact. We cover our faces in shame and apologize when we are vulnerable, but we are fully animated and puff out our chests when we are enraged. You would think it would be the other way…
DetailsThere is a natural tendency to look back and LONG for a time that no longer exists. We have a savant ability to revise history, to revise times, so it heightens the distortion of current times. There is a nostalgic piece of longing for more of a halcyon time and there is some cloak of…
DetailsIn these very uncertain times, it’s difficult to find sustainable inspiration, long term possibilities. And yet we keep looking- it’s a little bit like having lost your keys but you keep going back to the same location hoping that they will have miraculously shown up. It’s not easy understanding what is bankrupt and no longer…
DetailsI have lost four of my closest friends in the last few years, the fourth being George our dog. Loss is inevitable, it’s the only thing that is guaranteed. The when and the how of it are up for grabs, but the inevitability of loss is certain. Many of us are defined by our losses,…
DetailsThere are lessons we forget especially in a time of crisis. We regress to unfavorable behaviors and introduce actions that are not in our best interest. It’s part of the human design, to withdraw and/or to act impulsively in times of threat. A lesson that I have integrated into my life is to act thoughtfully…
DetailsI feel like we are living in an alternate universe, where what you once knew and countedon has become a foundation of uncertainty. It’s so easy to forget that we are a “BlueMarble” moving through space at 67,000 miles per hour as we orbit the sun. I have to refer back to my past quotes…
DetailsWhat I had in mind to do for January seminar is no longer applicable. In Liu of the firesin LA and great loss, what was relevant takes a back seat to what’s meaningful.Whether you were directly hit by last week’s devastation or a casualty by proximity andempathy, It is a time to recover and feel…
DetailsIt has been and continues to be a truly devastating time in Los Angeles. The news can sometimes be hyperbolic and distorted, but this time the collars and cuffs match. People have lost their homes and so much more and it’s not done. Like most horrific situations, you want some light at the end of…
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