Control

We are all controlling, it’s just a matter of degrees and dosage. Maybe a better way to look at it is- we are all attempting to get control in a world that is out of control. Somehow, we forget that we are spinning through space at 1700km/hr. You would think we would be a species determined by…

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Poem

I am scared. I am lonely. I am not certain if one begets the other but they seem kindred. However, the derivation of kindred is kind, and this coupling doesn’t feel kind. Maybe related would be better put. I am at a loss. I know I am not alone, there are many fellow travelers on…

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New Year

“A long December and there’s reason to believe Maybe this year will be better than the last.”                               – COUNTING CROWS We don’t know but we can always HOPE- seemingly there are more Covid breakouts now than ever. We certainly have a viral connection. It’s not like the sixties where we were connected through a similar…

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SELF-CARE

SELF-CARE – Breck’s Definition: The actions you take that provide the catalyst to less “Noise” and greater well-being. SELF-CARE is specific to the individual but essential for all of us. Knowing what you need and then providing it for yourself takes some time and a good deal of personal inventory.Because of our own issues, many of…

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Entitlement

Entitlement by definition is “that you deserve more than others”; and by the same reasoning, you don’t deserve less, and when you get less, it’s a problem, and someone’s going to pay for that problem. Now, we have tolerance for that in children, and/or if someone is spending good money for their entitlement we are more accommodating as…

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An Unleashed Summer

It seems like things (the world) is opening up. The constraints of a year in hibernation and wanting to be released portents an unleashed summer. The conflict of to be or not to be vaccinated seems to be finding resolve, and the concern for long-term effects seems to be receding into the background – foreign…

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Get To Your Feelings

Sometimes it’s hard, next to impossible, to get to your feelings. I mean, it looks like feelings because you are raging and struggling and fighting against immovable forces – forces inside you that won’t allow for your feelings, that won’t allow for release, that won’t allow for heartbreak. The only expression is Blame and Rage…

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Sacred Vows

We all have Sacred Vows that we have made with God, with others, or with ourselves. Some are current, and some were made at a very early age. Sometimes these vows are organic, and somehow they get formalized over time, and sometimes these Vows are declarations that become sinew and evolve into an essential part…

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Lessons

Lessons in life are hard-fought. There is no easy road to redemption, and/or evolution. It’s a battle against a new order of things, it’s a battle against the fear of what you might lose, it’s a battle against what has held you fast, and it’s always a battle with uncertainty, the unknown. One knows what they…

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To a Brave New Year

Even though we are saying goodbye to 2020, there are those who are holding on to 2020 with a death grip. Maybe it’s because you won’t be able to ride on Airforce 1, or maybe because your need for attention is gasping for every last breath. Or maybe it’s because you don’t have the option of…

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